Experiences After Infidelity via Internet Communication: Surveillance, Ambivalence, and Termination

Document Type

Article

Publication Date

4-5-2021

Publication Title

Sexual and Relationship Therapy

First page number:

1

Last page number:

20

Abstract

Infidelity is a challenging but prominent issue in couple therapy. In addition to the negative outcomes, clinicians generally report that infidelity is the second most difficult problem to treat after intimate partner violence. The purpose of this study was to identify the recovery process in the betrayed (non-participating) partner. Specifically, we sought to identify the implications of online infidelity (infidelity that occurs through Internet modalities, such as social media messaging, direct messages, etc.) on the betrayed partner during recovery. Across three focus groups of those in dating relationships, we identified an eight-stage process through the lens of the betrayed partner: intuition, investigation, discovery, confrontation, response, forgiveness/limbo, termination, and new rules. Theoretical and clinical implications are discussed.

Keywords

Infidelity; Infidelity treatment; Internet; Internet communication; Smart phone; Smartphone

Disciplines

Communication Technology and New Media | Marriage and Family Therapy and Counseling

Language

English

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